Comments for Married, with Miles

Comment on Solo Parenting Compromises by Amanda

Amanda — Thu, 10 Nov 2011 16:32:30 +0000

“All in moderation” is my personal struggle. I don’t really know how to do that I’m willing to take lessons.

Comment on Solo Parenting Compromises by Erin

Erin — Thu, 10 Nov 2011 16:28:43 +0000

I think those are valuable tips for any time you’re on your own. I have a few nights a week J works late and I follow many things you listed above. It falls into my “all in moderation” philosophy. Plus, I just try to balance it the next night with healthier meals or firmer routines. I have backed off the potty training issue for now with G. I figure he’ll eventually want it on his own and until then I have enough going on to not battle with him on it! Hang in there- I’m impressed with how you manage it all

Comment on Solo Parenting by Amanda

Amanda — Mon, 25 Jul 2011 13:49:31 +0000

Thank you! I will check out your book. I felt surprised when I called out on Twitter and no military moms who I otherwise communicate with responded. We’ve both actually dealt with the favored parent at different times. It’s hard, and what’s actually interesting is how she reacts negatively to my own, rare, business travel & my returns.

Comment on Solo Parenting by Amanda

Amanda — Mon, 25 Jul 2011 13:48:06 +0000

We have days where the Skype calls are a joke, too, don’t get me wrong.
Thanks!

Comment on Solo Parenting by Corinne @ Have Baby Will Travel

Corinne @ Have Baby Will Travel — Mon, 25 Jul 2011 13:35:09 +0000

Skype never worked for us. Kids would scream and cry and say “I don’t want daddy to be in the computer!”.

Now when one of us is away (usually him) we rarely even call as it seems to upset them. We’ll do brief texts or emails at the end of the day to keep each other posted.

But you’re right, sticking to routine is key for us too.

Comment on Solo Parenting by Carla Anne Funk Coroy

Carla Anne Funk Coroy — Mon, 25 Jul 2011 13:29:27 +0000

This is a great post and I love how you are so thoughtful in advance about how to help your baby in the separation periods. Very wise! Being a solo parent is something I’ve struggled with for many years. My book “Married Mom, Solo Parent” will be out October 1 but is already available for sale at amazon.com. In there I have a ton of ideas for how I’ve dealt with stuff from celebrations without dad, loneliness, all kinds – and through all the age stages, as well. My kids are now teens (oldest is 16) and things change as they grow for sure. But one thing that does not change is that they need both parents to be involved and to know they are loved by both.

And yes… about being the favorite parent? Yep! I know all about that! I have four children and often felt like when Dad came home he got all the fun while I’d been busy disciplining, wiping bottoms, walking cranky babies, and teaching manners! it’s not fun and games to be the everyday parent when dad comes home – especially if he comes home with treats!

I’d love for you to pre-order my book (http://amzn.to/rcvluR). I’ll have some free resources available to go with it on my website for once you’ve bought it.

Bless you! Great post!

Comment on Sanibel Vacation, 2011 by Amanda

Amanda — Fri, 01 Jul 2011 16:18:21 +0000

Thank you so much! I hope to save more of these as we travel with her. What a fun, different baby book she could have! Thanks for visiting.

Comment on Sanibel Vacation, 2011 by Luci and Mike

Luci and Mike — Fri, 01 Jul 2011 02:50:54 +0000

What a touching letter! Well done.

Comment on Parent/Travel Hack: Mitten Clips by Rob

Rob — Tue, 28 Jun 2011 01:44:40 +0000

Or to pull hotel curtains further closed for Baby nap times!

Comment on Quick Review: Ergo Backpack by Rob

Rob — Tue, 28 Jun 2011 01:43:49 +0000

As a follow-up, despite it being difficult to carry attached to the Ergo directly, this bag will become our defacto diaper bag for trips around town. I personally found it pretty useful as a backpack, with Baby in a front carry, although it was awkward to take either off, in that case.